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RELATIONSHIP AND SEX ON CAMPUS
Relationships are an important part of our lives and can play a significant role in our emotional wellbeing. Different kinds of relationships exists and everyone deserves to have a happy one but the major concern is on the romantic ones which takes work and effort to build, maintain and sometimes even end. The university opens the door for all types of relationship challenges and they are not always easy, but there is never an excuse for dating violence or abuse. Healthy relationships are built on a foundation of trust and support, respect, shared responsibility, intimacy, equality, and open communication.
Dating violence is very common among students and can happen in any relationship for example physical abuse, psychological, and/or emotional violence, sexual abuse or threats of physical violence. In any relationship you find yourself and there is an imbalance in it, there are those basic rights to building healthy relationships which are;
You have the right to end a relationship that you feel isn’t right for u.
You have the right to be competitive and to achieve.
You have the right to live free from violence and abuse.
You have the right to feel save and respected.
You have the right to refuse requests without having to feel guilty or selfish.
No relationship is perfect all the time. But in a healthy relationship, both people feel good about it most of the time. A great relationship takes more than attraction- it takes work, and both of you have to be willing to put in the effort. The first and most important thing to do is to love yourself then talk to your partner about your feelings. Ask questions and listen to their answers. If you are upset, say so and stop stressing your partner. Don’t forget to let them know when something they do makes you happy. Be honest, give each other some space to do other things. Agree to disagree, forgive and ask for forgiveness, support each other, talk about sex…openly and honestly that is never pressure your partner into doing something they don’t want to do, or let your partner pressure you-consent is a must. Take care of your sexual health by talking to your partner about how you are going to protect each other against STDs and unintended pregnancy. Practice safer sex and get tested for STDs.
HOW TO MAKE YOUR RELATIONSHIP BETTER
Keeping your relationship in great shape definitely takes work. Talk to your partner about thing that you think could be better. Be clear about what is bothering you, and be respectful. Good communication is a big part of solving problems. If you have trouble working through things on your own, you might consider getting help from someone outside your relationship like a counselor or therapist can help couples work through issues and improve their relationships.
One important thing to note is that you have no right whatsoever to condemn other peoples relationships unless yours is perfect which is never possible. The motive of those having sex in their relationship is very bad should be wiped out because that’s what they both agreed to do and its fine by them.
CAMPUS RELATIONSHIPS
Various relationships exists on campus but most of it never last. It is always very few that succeed in theirs. It is funny how two people found dating instantly breaks up maybe the next semester and if asked why, the reasons are sometimes not valid. Some guys just want to have different girls they desire. It is all part of fun because no one is to be blamed for their unsuccessful relationships, they are supposed to see it coming if or if not it will be productive. The truth is that most relationships end immediately the guy has sex with her, he starts losing interest and would desire to have hold of someone new .So painful, but its happens. At the sight of some couples, I already know it will not last which always turns out to be correct.
Relationships are an important part of our lives and can play a significant role in our emotional wellbeing. Different kinds of relationships exists and everyone deserves to have a happy one but the major concern is on the romantic ones which takes work and effort to build, maintain and sometimes even end. The university opens the door for all types of relationship challenges and they are not always easy, but there is never an excuse for dating violence or abuse. Healthy relationships are built on a foundation of trust and support, respect, shared responsibility, intimacy, equality, and open communication.
Dating violence is very common among students and can happen in any relationship for example physical abuse, psychological, and/or emotional violence, sexual abuse or threats of physical violence. In any relationship you find yourself and there is an imbalance in it, there are those basic rights to building healthy relationships which are;
You have the right to end a relationship that you feel isn’t right for u.
You have the right to be competitive and to achieve.
You have the right to live free from violence and abuse.
You have the right to feel save and respected.
You have the right to refuse requests without having to feel guilty or selfish.
No relationship is perfect all the time. But in a healthy relationship, both people feel good about it most of the time. A great relationship takes more than attraction- it takes work, and both of you have to be willing to put in the effort. The first and most important thing to do is to love yourself then talk to your partner about your feelings. Ask questions and listen to their answers. If you are upset, say so and stop stressing your partner. Don’t forget to let them know when something they do makes you happy. Be honest, give each other some space to do other things. Agree to disagree, forgive and ask for forgiveness, support each other, talk about sex…openly and honestly that is never pressure your partner into doing something they don’t want to do, or let your partner pressure you-consent is a must. Take care of your sexual health by talking to your partner about how you are going to protect each other against STDs and unintended pregnancy. Practice safer sex and get tested for STDs.
HOW TO MAKE YOUR RELATIONSHIP BETTER
Keeping your relationship in great shape definitely takes work. Talk to your partner about thing that you think could be better. Be clear about what is bothering you, and be respectful. Good communication is a big part of solving problems. If you have trouble working through things on your own, you might consider getting help from someone outside your relationship like a counselor or therapist can help couples work through issues and improve their relationships.
One important thing to note is that you have no right whatsoever to condemn other peoples relationships unless yours is perfect which is never possible. The motive of those having sex in their relationship is very bad should be wiped out because that’s what they both agreed to do and its fine by them.
CAMPUS RELATIONSHIPS
Various relationships exists on campus but most of it never last. It is always very few that succeed in theirs. It is funny how two people found dating instantly breaks up maybe the next semester and if asked why, the reasons are sometimes not valid. Some guys just want to have different girls they desire. It is all part of fun because no one is to be blamed for their unsuccessful relationships, they are supposed to see it coming if or if not it will be productive. The truth is that most relationships end immediately the guy has sex with her, he starts losing interest and would desire to have hold of someone new .So painful, but its happens. At the sight of some couples, I already know it will not last which always turns out to be correct.
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